-server
-Xms<heap size>[g|m|k] -Xmx<heap size>[g|m|k]


-XX:MaxMetaspaceSize=<metaspace size>[g|m|k]
//Sets the maximum amount of native memory that can be allocated for class metadata.

-Xmn<young size>[g|m|k]
//Sets the initial and maximum size (in bytes) of the heap for the young generation (nursery)   eden+ 2 survivor space.
-Xss
//Sets the thread stack size (in bytes).
-XX:SurvivorRatio=<ratio>
// Sets the ratio between eden space size and survivor space size.

-XX:+UseConcMarkSweepGC -XX:+CMSParallelRemarkEnabled
// Enables the use of the CMS garbage collector for the old generation.

-XX:+UseCMSInitiatingOccupancyOnly -XX:CMSInitiatingOccupancyFraction=<percent>

-XX:+ScavengeBeforeFullGC -XX:+CMSScavengeBeforeRemark
//Enables GC of the young generation before each full GC.


-XX:+PrintGCDateStamps -verbose:gc -XX:+PrintGCDetails -Xloggc:"<path to log>"

-XX:+UseGCLogFileRotation -XX:NumberOfGCLogFiles=10 -XX:GCLogFileSize=100M
-Dsun.net.inetaddr.ttl=<TTL in seconds>

-XX:+HeapDumpOnOutOfMemoryError -XX:HeapDumpPath=<path to dump>`date`.hprof
//Enables the dumping of the Java heap to a file in the current directory by using the heap profiler (HPROF) when a java.lang.OutOfMemoryError exception is thrown.

-Djava.rmi.server.hostname=<external IP>
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.port=<port> 
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.authenticate=false 
-Dcom.sun.management.jmxremote.ssl=false